What’s up, my wonderful, amazing, sweet, and lovely people! 💖 Welcome back to Maryam’s Joyful Life blog, where we celebrate faith, family, and the beauty of living a joyful life.
Today, I want to share something very close to my heart. My Limitless Church sister, Victoria, is one of the most youthful, radiant, and gorgeous women I know—and she’s proof that age is just a number. I asked her what her secret was, and her response was so beautiful that I knew I had to share it with you.
Here are Victoria’s secrets to staying young, vibrant, and full of life:
1. She Minds Her Own Business
Victoria doesn’t waste her energy comparing herself to others or getting caught up in unnecessary drama. She stays focused on what matters, and that keeps her peaceful—and peace is the best beauty secret!
2. She Exercises
Movement keeps the body strong and the mind sharp. Whether it’s walking, stretching, or working out, exercise keeps her feeling energized and confident.
3. She Drinks Water Every Day
Hydration is key! Drinking water not only helps with glowing skin but also keeps the body refreshed and functioning at its best.
4. She Avoids Stress and Doesn’t Take Things Personally
This one is powerful. Victoria recognizes that people’s actions are often a reflection of their own struggles—not about her. She doesn’t take on their problems or let negativity weigh her down.
5. She Goes After Her Own Goals
Victoria is intentional about pursuing goals for herself—not just for others. Having dreams and ambitions of her own fuels her happiness and gives her life purpose.
6. She Trusts That God Takes Good Care of Her
Her faith in God is her anchor. She knows that God provides, sustains, and covers her, and that deep trust allows her to live joyfully and gracefully.
But what touched me the most was her encouragement to mothers.
Victoria shared that she spent so much of her life raising her children that she didn’t build an identity outside of being a mom. When her kids grew up and left, she was suddenly left asking herself: Who am I, outside of motherhood?
That journey of rediscovering herself, deepening her relationship with God, and taking care of her own beauty (yes, she even does her own hair and nails!) gave her a new sense of confidence and joy.
She told me:
👉 “I want every woman with children to pursue her own personal goals. Don’t let being a mom be the only thing that defines you.”
My Encouragement for You
If you’re reading this today and thinking it’s too late to claim your life back, let me tell you something: it’s not too late. 🌟
You can decide today who you want to be and start working towards it. You can create something new, build a life you love, and discover the version of yourself that you may have buried under responsibilities and expectations.
You are more capable than you think. Don’t let anyone steal your joy. 💕
Stay youthful, stay joyful, and keep shining!
With love,
Maryam
