What’s up, wonderful, amazing, sweet, and lovely people?
Thank you so much for stopping by Maryam’s Joyful Life today. I want to share a thought that’s been sitting with me lately—something I felt strongly while I was in London recently visiting my sister.
You know how we always say, “Everyone’s different”? Well, I’ve come to realize that this also applies to church atmospheres.
While I was in London, I attended my sister’s church a few times. It wasn’t a bad experience—everyone was warm, and the service was fine—but something felt off for me personally. It was a slower pace than what I’m used to, and I found myself trying extra hard to get spiritually fired up. I’d leave church thinking, “Why am I not feeling lit up inside like I normally do?”
Back home in the U.S., I attend Limitless Church with Pastor Real Talk Kim, and let me tell you—that atmosphere is fire! 🔥
I don’t have to try to feel empowered. I don’t have to push myself to be excited. The moment worship starts and Pastor Kim steps on the platform, it’s like my soul instantly comes alive. Her words are always so full of power, encouragement, and truth that I leave feeling like I can conquer the world! That’s the kind of church atmosphere that feeds my fire.
While in London, after attending my sister’s church, I’d often find myself tuning into the Limitless Church YouTube livestream, just to soak in the energy and empowerment I craved. It got me thinking deeply about how we are all wired differently—and that’s okay. God made each of us with unique spiritual needs and different ways we connect best with Him.
Some people thrive in quiet, reflective churches. Others are fed by high-energy, passionate worship and preaching. I’ve learned that I’m someone who needs to be in an environment that speaks life, light, and boldness. I don’t do well in heavy or lethargic atmospheres—they drain me rather than build me.
The truth is:
You should never have to force yourself to fit into a spiritual environment that stifles your growth.
It’s okay to recognize when something doesn’t align with your spirit and to seek the place where you truly thrive.
This blog is simply a reminder to embrace who God created you to be. Know where you flourish. Know what feeds your soul. And know that it’s not just about the “right” church, but the right church for you.
I’m so incredibly thankful for Pastor Real Talk Kim and the Limitless Church family. The difference in my spirit, my mindset, and even my joy after being in that atmosphere is undeniable.
If you’ve been wrestling with the idea of leaving a church—even if it’s a good church—but you know deep down that it’s not where you thrive, this might be the gentle nudge you need. God didn’t design you to survive spiritually—He designed you to thrive.
Sending you love and joy always,
Maryam ❤️
