Time Wasters, Discernment, and Protecting Your Purpose

Hello guys, welcome to MaryamsJoyfulLife!

Today is a beautiful day, and honestly—regardless of how I feel—it’s still an amazing day. I’m so grateful for the power to choose my focus and shift my energy, even when life throws a few curveballs. That choice alone is powerful—and it changes everything.

Lately, I’ve been reflecting on something deep, especially as someone who truly enjoys serving others. I love showing up, giving my best, and going the extra mile—even when it’s not convenient. That’s just how I’m wired. But here's the truth: that extra mile hasn't always led to the kind of business I want.

I’ve noticed a pattern that I can no longer ignore:
The people I bend over backward for—researching, advising, supporting—many of them have turned out to be time wasters. They don’t follow through. They pull energy, not progress. They take the information and disappear. And honestly? It hurts.

Meanwhile, there's another trend—one that’s been so clear lately:
The clients who come prepared, knowing exactly what they want, making no extra demands, and even paying higher—those are the ones who close the deal. Quickly. Smoothly. Efficiently.

Seeing this has made me ask myself:
Should I stop going the extra mile? Should I start saying no to “let me pick your brain” conversations that don’t lead anywhere?
Should I reserve my best only for the ones who are serious about doing business?

My ego says YES—just stop! Stop giving so much. Stop hoping. Stop showing up so hard for people who don't match your energy.

But my spirit says pause. Reflect. Discern.

So I’m praying—for discernment. Discernment to know when someone is a time waster, and when someone is truly sent for a season of purpose. Because honestly, I’m tired of empty wells. I want to pour into places that pour back.

And maybe you’ve been there too.
Maybe you have gone all out for someone, thinking they’d be the one to support your business, only to realize it was all smoke and no fire. If you’ve been in that predicament, I see you. I feel you. And I want to pray with you:

Lord, I pray that you would give us wisdom to see who is truly meant to walk this business journey with us. Remove time wasters from our path and replace them with real clients, real opportunities, and real connections. Make the process smooth, the outcome joyful, and the energy returned—pressed down, shaken together, and overflowing. In Jesus' Name, Amen.

Thank you for walking through this moment with me. If you’re building something with your heart and soul—don’t stop. Just adjust your approach. Protect your gift. Guard your energy. And stay rooted in your purpose.

As always, don’t forget to check out MaryamsJoyfulLifeLuxuryVacation.com for all of your travel needs.
Call me directly at 470-765-2745 to book your next dream vacation!
Sending you love from the UK 💛

With joy and strength,
Maryam

Touchdown in London: A Whirlwind Welcome & City Adventures

 

Our First 48 Hours in London – A Whirlwind of Delays, Surprises, and Beautiful Moments

Hello guys, welcome back to Maryam’s Joyful Life — today is a beautiful day, and I’m so excited to share with you our first 48 hours in

London!

Let’s just say the journey started with a little chaos! After a 5-hour delay in Atlanta, our flight to Montreal finally took off. Because of the delay, we had to change our original connecting flight to London — we were definitely not going to make it in time for the first one. While we waited at the Atlanta airport, we hoped to relax in the United Airlines lounge (which they share with Air Canada), but unfortunately, it’s only accessible to those with Gold status — and that wasn’t us.

By the time we arrived in Canada, there wasn’t even time to check out the Maple Leaf Lounge. It was a quick dash to the restroom, and then straight to boarding. But we were just happy to finally be on the plane heading to London!

When we landed, the most heartwarming moment happened — my sister surprised us at the airport! I hadn’t seen her in so long, and it was the perfect welcome after a long journey.

We only had one night in London before heading to her place, so we planned to do the famous London Hop-On Hop-Off Bus Tour and a City River Cruise — both included in our 48-hour pass. But we arrived too late and too tired to start exploring right away. Instead, my sister ordered us a delicious Turkish rice and lamb kebab meal. It was absolutely amazing! After dinner, we took a much-needed nap, and then my sister had to head back home. We planned to join her the next day after our mini London adventure.

The next morning, we enjoyed a delightful breakfast at the Hampton by Hilton Hotel in Old Street, London. They had waffle makers and other hot breakfast items — everything tasted great and gave us a good start to our day. After checking out, we left our luggage with the concierge and set off to explore.

We began our tour at London Bridge, hopping on the red double-decker bus, taking in the views of the historic city. We ended the experience with the river cruise, which offered spectacular views of iconic landmarks — from Tower Bridge to the London Eye. If you’re planning your travels, book with us at maryamsjoyfullifeluxuryvacation.com or call 470-765-2745. We make your travel dreams come true!

After the tour, we stopped for lunch at Nosh Café. The jerk chicken was absolutely flavorful and well-seasoned. The smashed burger, however, didn’t quite hit the mark, and the club sandwich was just okay — nothing too special. But it was a good stop to rest and recharge.

After lunch, we headed back to the hotel, grabbed our bags, and called a taxi to take us to the train station — off to my sister’s home for the next part of our adventure!

Thank you so much for checking out Maryam’s Joyful Life today. Whether your journey is filled with delays or delightful surprises, remember — don’t let anyone steal your joy. 💛

Sizzling Fun at Himitsu: Our Teppanyaki Table Experience at Dreams Natura

 

Hello lovely readers and welcome back to MaryamsJoyfulLife blog! Today, I’m excited to share a truly unforgettable dinner experience our family had during our stay at Dreams Natura Resorts & Spa in Cancun, Mexico.

We had the pleasure of dining at the Himitsu Japanese Restaurant, and let me tell you—this wasn’t just dinner, it was dinner and a show!

We made reservations for the Teppanyaki table, and it was absolutely worth it. The atmosphere was lively and fun as our talented Teppanyaki chef dazzled us with fire tricks, knife juggling, and lightning-fast chopping skills. It was equal parts entertaining and a little thrilling (especially when the flames went up—whoa!). The kids were wide-eyed and clapping, and my sweetman and I couldn’t stop smiling. The energy at the table was contagious!

As for the food—simply amazing. We were served a delicious starter of fresh, flavorful sushi, followed by a mouthwatering spread of shrimp, chicken, and steak, cooked to perfection right before our eyes. Paired with sautéed vegetables and savory fried rice, every bite was hot, fresh, and full of flavor.

We ended the night on a sweet note with fried ice cream—crispy on the outside, creamy on the inside, and just the right amount of indulgence. It was the perfect way to wrap up an unforgettable evening.

If you’re visiting Dreams Natura, we highly recommend making a reservation at Himitsu’s Teppanyaki table. It’s a fun, interactive dining experience the whole family will enjoy!

And don’t forget—if you’re dreaming about your next luxurious escape, visit us at maryamsjoyfullifeluxuryvacation.com or give us a call at 470-765-2645. We’re a full-service travel agency, and we’re here to help you plan every detail of your next unforgettable getaway.

Thank you for stopping by MaryamsJoyfulLife blog today. Until next time—stay joyful, travel often, and have a blessed day!

A Delicious Afternoon at Blue Water Grill – Cancun, Mexico

 

Hey lovely readers! 🌞

Today, I’m so excited to share our amazing lunch experience at Blue Water Grill, tucked inside the stunning Dreams Natura Resort & Spa in beautiful Cancun, Mexico.

After a fun-filled morning soaking up the sun and enjoying the resort’s peaceful vibes, my family and I headed over to Blue Water Grill for lunch—and let me tell you, it did not disappoint!

From the moment we arrived, we were welcomed with genuine smiles and warm hospitality. The staff made us feel right at home, and the relaxed, tropical atmosphere added the perfect touch to our vacation afternoon.

Now let’s talk about the food… because wow! Every bite was packed with freshness and flavor. The menu had something for everyone—fresh seafood, perfectly grilled meats, crisp salads, and tropical sides that paired beautifully with the ocean breeze. It felt like each dish was made just for us, and you could really tell everything was prepared with love and care.

Blue Water Grill is truly a hidden gem at the resort. Whether you’re craving something light or something hearty, this is the spot to enjoy a laid-back, satisfying meal with incredible service.

We absolutely recommend stopping by if you’re staying at Dreams Natura—or even if you’re just looking for a memorable lunch experience in Cancun.

And don’t forget—if you’re ready to book your next luxury getaway, check out MaryamsJoyfulLifeLuxuryVacation.com or give us a call at 470-765-2745. Let us help you plan your dream escape, just like ours.

Until next time—stay joyful and keep traveling! ✈️🌴

Love,

Maryam

Lunchtime Bliss at World Café – Dreams Natura Resorts & Spa, Cancun!

Hey lovely people!
Thank you for checking out MaryamsJoyfulLife blog—your go-to space for joy, travel, family, and fabulous food!

Today, I’m excited to share one of our favorite dining experiences from our trip to Dreams Natura Resorts & Spa in beautiful Cancun, Mexico. We had lunch at the World Café buffet restaurant, and let me just say—it was absolutely AMAZING!

From the moment we walked in, the atmosphere was welcoming, the service was fantastic, and the variety of food options was out of this world. What truly made this buffet stand out was the rich variety of international cuisines offered. There was something for everyone, and everything was made fresh and with care.

One of the unexpected highlights for me was the Indian curry chicken and rice—yes, Indian food in Cancun! And it was so good. The flavors were bold, warm, and comforting. That curry chicken was seasoned to perfection, and the rice was fluffy and flavorful. I couldn’t stop talking about it!

Another standout was the taco station where fresh tacos were made right in front of you. I went for a chorizo taco, and it was absolutely delicious. The tortilla was soft and warm, the chorizo was spicy and savory—everything I want in a taco and more.

Out of all the restaurants on the resort, World Café quickly became our favorite place to eat. Every meal was a treat, and we always left happy and full.

If you're planning a trip to Cancun or just dreaming of your next getaway, let us help you make it magical. Visit maryamsjoyfullifeluxuryvacation.com or give us a call at 470-765-2745. We’d love to help you plan the vacation of your dreams!

Until next time,
Stay joyful and adventurous!
– Maryam